meet tara

Hi, I'm Tara Whitewood. I'm a Relationship Coach based at Toronto, on picturesque Lake Macquarie in Newcastle. Through my online programs, coaching, and workshops, I teach couples & singles how to discover a lifetime of love through passion, creation, and expression.

why i do what i do

For many years I struggled in my relationships. I felt unloved, unsupported, and disconnected. I kept attracting partners who really didn't give a shit about our relationship, and were only interested in engaging on a pretty superficial level. 

I always believed there had to be more.

I devoured any books I could get my hands on that had to do with love, sex, intimacy & connection. I worked hard to learn all I could about how to communicate clearly and effectively. I kept trying, believing that love would save our relationship.

On a number of occasions my ex-partner(s) and I went to see a marriage counsellor. It was fucked. They were going through a process without any insight into what was really happening for us. My partners put on a fake front, and made the whole thing a waste of time. They'd say all the right things, then we'd get home nothing would change. I felt profoundly betrayed.

After many years of heart ache & loneliness I walked out of that house and into a new world. I began to study coaching and human behaviour, and I discovered that there is a strategy to finding the right partner, and an art to creating a lifetime of love. I did some serious work to let go of the baggage I was carrying, so that I could find the man I wanted to spend my life with.

It's been 5 years since I met my beloved Jimmy T, and I am radiant with joy. Our relationship moves from strength to strength and together we have created a love and a life that inspires us to continually learn & grow.

My mission is to share those strategies that will dramatically improve the intimacy and friendship in your relationship and teach you to manage conflict in a healthy, positive way. Along with the deeper connection and understanding of each other, you will take home tools, and tips to support your relationship in your everyday lives.

My no BS approach means we will cut right through the layers of shit and get to the heart of what is happening, my compassion & insight will support BOTH of you to express your desires, to feel truly heard and understood, and reignite your passion.

If you are ready to take the next step, you can get in touch by emailing or by booking a phone call through the link below. 

Tara x



It is really important to me that you get great results and that we are both clear on the outcomes you desire – get in touch for a free consultation to get a sense of how the program will work for you. That usually takes between 10 and 20 minutes depending on how many questions you have. You can call me on 0423 953 366 or book a time below


  • Internationally Certified Extended DISC Consultant & Trainer
  • Certified Practitioner Neuro-Linguistic Programming
  • Certified Practitioner Deep State Re-Patterning
  • Certified Instant Insight Communication Systems™ Relationship Coach
  • Certified Instant Insight Communication Systems™ Sex Coach
  • Trained in Alice Haemmerle’s  Client Code™

  • Tara @ Tedx the rocks 2014 "the business of love"